Kyata's Wonderful Relationship Column

Dear Kyata,

How do you live with an insecure girlfriend? We have been going out four weeks and she doesn’t trust me out of the house; I can’t walk to the corner without her calling me. She thinks that I’m texting other girls at school.

Thank you,

Mr. Depressed

Dear Mr. Depressed,

You need to go away from her. Are you tired of her? You need to ask your mom what you should do and do what she says. Your girlfriend is a little crazy, but you should try to talk to her and try to tell her that you are not dating other girls. Try to make her understand.

Love is Wacky,

Kyata

Dear Kyata,

My parents are getting divorced and I feel it is all my fault. My father yells at me and my mom gets mad at him and then they fight in front of us. She actually told him after one time he yelled at me “I want a divorce” and now he has moved out of the house. I tell them I am okay and know he is taking things out on me, even though he is mad at her. What can I do to show them that I am strong and can handle his anger. My brother and I don’t want them to get divorced.

Thank you,

Feeling Blame Bridget

Dear Feeling Blame Bridget,

I am so sorry you are feeling this way. It is not your fault; it is your parents and they are acting like children. You should spend more time with your dad, until he knows how to understand you better. But maybe the divorce is best so maybe you don’t have to be all up in the drama.

Love for the Best,

Kyata

Dear Kyata,

Will I be able to pull off going to a PG13 movie? I want to see “Single Mom’s Club”, it is about single mom’s that take turns with each other’s kids while the other mom’s go and play. I am eleven years old, but think I look fourteen years old. Is it dishonest to go to the movie theatre and tell them I am thirteen?

Eleven Going On Twenty

Dear Eleven Going On Twenty,

First of all, “Single Mom’s Club” is a great movie. But I don’t think it is the right choice to go see a movie that you are too young to see if you are not with a parent or guardian. You only have to wait two years. If you start lying now…where will that leave you? Also, some places do check kids i.d’s if you are not with parent.

Honesty is the Best Policy,

Kyata

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